Bisexual dating: attraction, identity and individual choice
Begin with the person behind the profile, and make room for different experiences of bisexuality.

Your identity. Your own kind of connection.
Explore bisexual dating through thoughtful conversations and shared interests. Bisexual Contact brings adults together to discover compatibility, express their identity and discuss what they want from dating without assumptions. Start with the person, listen with curiosity and choose a pace that feels right for both of you.
Explore all eight guidesBisexuality can describe attraction to more than one gender, and each person experiences and expresses it in their own way. Someone’s current partner does not define or invalidate their identity. Get to know their interests, values and hopes for a connection instead of relying on stereotypes about who they should be.
Create a profile that reflects your everyday life, introduce yourself and explore your shared interests. You decide how much to share about your identity and when. Our eight guides cover bisexual dating profiles, first messages, relationship expectations, consent, privacy and public first dates. This community is for adults aged 18 and over.
Share interests and dating intentions in your own words. You choose which personal details you want to make public.
Ask about a profile detail and leave room for a reply. A shared identity is a starting point, not a set of assumptions.
Discuss expectations and boundaries, then plan a public first meeting when you both feel ready.
Eight guides to bisexual dating, identity, communication, privacy and meeting with mutual respect.
Begin with the person behind the profile, and make room for different experiences of bisexuality.
Show your personality and intentions while keeping control of the personal details you share.
Start with a profile detail and genuine interest, rather than a question that asks someone to prove their identity.
Orientation does not tell you whether someone wants exclusivity, casual dating or another agreed arrangement.
A shared orientation never replaces a clear conversation about what feels comfortable and welcome.
Choose your audience deliberately, and protect your right to be open in some settings while private in others.
Turn a conversation into a simple public meeting with clear plans and freedom to decide what comes next.
Build connections through shared experiences and everyday interests while respecting different ways of being bisexual.